Smile for the Camera!

13 05 2011

This is what I have been up to lately.  A quick photo update in the life of Carly.

Me and my dog

Thanks to the nice people from Bikers Against Child Abuse, I got a new puppy.

Yep, working on standing up.

Not sure what I love more, my cool PJ’s or that I am working on standing up.

Brady teaching me how to drive.

I have the best driving instructor in the world.

Oatmeal makes me sleepy

Dad promises that this will not make it into my graduation or wedding slide show. Not sure if I believe him.

~Confessions has a major announcement coming soon! ~





Goodbye My Friend

1 12 2010

Back in May I wrote  a post called “No, we don’t eat the cat” that explored the important bond that our cat Chelsea and Carly shared.  The post can be found here:  http://www.confessionsofadownsyndromedaddy.com/?m=201004

Sadly, at 12:40 AM today, we lost Chelsea as she passed away in my arms.  Not only was she our pet for the last 20 years, I was lucky enough to know her for almost 9 years, she was a member of the family as well.

I will always remember the way she went from tolerating the kids, and me, to full on accepting us and making herself available to have her hair pulled and tail yanked to play with Carly.

She also helped me through some really tough times, like when my spinal tap didn’t heal correctly and all I could do was lay flat on the couch.  She was there with me patiently waiting and sleeping by my side.  When insomnia would hit, she would hang out with me and watch me play video games all night long.

This is going to be a short post as I keep stopping to cry as I write.

Chelsea

To you Chelsea, I say Goodbye My Friend, thank you for letting us into your life and for the time we spent together.  Thank you for the late night meows when you would do it just because.  Thank you for always trying to bother Dave when he would come over to watch football.  Thank you for wanting to be involved in Carly’s weekly appoints with the SCOE crew.

I will miss you my friend and always remember that you are loved.





No, we don't eat the cat

30 04 2010

“No, we don’t eat the cat…”

Now this is a comment I did not think I would hear myself telling one of my kids.  Especially when the cat that was being “eaten” was our older and somewhat cranky cat Chelsea.

To give you a bit of a background on Chelsea, she is just about 18 years old and has generally been a bit of a temperamental cat, aka a royal pain in the tush sometimes.  Chelsea has put up with a lot of things in her life from moving around the world to dealing with going from a one owner home to a home full of three kids and yet another owner added on.  Of course, none of this happened with anyone consulting her, perhaps that is part of her anger.

Chelsea has been some what accepting of Emma and Brady and tolerates them as long as they are bringing her food and water.  Now with Carly, it is a completely different story.

Chelsea and Carly love each other dearly.  Carly loves to pet and/or try to eat Chelsea every chance she gets.  Chelsea walks around her, lies down beside her, and willingly gets her hair pulled as Carly learns how to pet a cat.  It is almost as if Chelsea knows that Carly has something special going on.  They have formed a great bond with one another and Chelsea has become one of Carly’s favorite toys.

I wonder if our pets, or pets in general, can sense when they encounter a person with special needs?  Do they, the pets, become more tolerant and understanding?  If so, why can’t we, as humans, do the same?

Chelsea is getting a bit long in the tooth and to be honest I really don’t know how much longer she is going to be around, however; I do know that she has been very understanding, patient, and comforting to a child, Carly, who loves her dearly.  To this I will always be grateful and will gladly tolerate her meowing in the middle of the night, just because she feels like it.